I have been a poor blogger of late, my friends, failing to make it around even my best blog buddies and owing several of you proper emails. It’s been very hectic here this past week as we not only have all the usual Christmas preparations to do, but we are heading off for a short holiday to Norfolk tomorrow, a kind of family break for us before we start the Christmas rounds, which has concertinaed all organization into an even smaller period of time than usual. It will be lovely when we get there, as they say. The reading room will be in abeyance until my return on Thursday next week.
I haven’t finalized the reading I’ll take with me. I have to confess to having bought the odd book, here and there of late from those tempting amazon marketplace sellers. I’ve recently received Javier Marías’s A Heart So White, which seems to have received universal acclaim and James Salter’s A Sport and A Pastime. Wanting to try Roberto Bolano, I ordered The Savage Detectives, which, when it came, turned out to be this huge chunky tome that I knew at once would never get read over the festive season. So this led me to pick up a copy of his short stories, Last Evenings on Earth which look utterly wonderful. I’ve also got Richard Powers’ Three Farmers on Their Way to a Dance, because everyone but everyone has read The Echo Makers and I wanted to read something different. I’m waiting for Edward Mendelson’s The Things That Matter: What Seven Classic Novels Have to Say About the Stages of Life, but I’m not sure that it will come before I leave, and the same can be said of Kate Sutherland’s All In Together Girls. I’ve got my fingers crossed.
I leave you, though, with a question that I hope you might be able to help me on. After Christmas I need to begin a whole new area of research into mothers in literature, and I am wracking my brains trying to think of which novels feature the most memorable portraits of maternity in all its stages. Obviously coming to mind are Virginia Woolf’s To the Lighthouse, Colette’s Break of Day and My Mother’s House, the poetry of Sylvia Plath and Adrienne Rich, books on being mothers by Anne Enright and Rachel Cusk, Marcel’s mother in Proust’s In Search of Lost Time, Mrs Bennett in Pride and Prejudice, and Colm Tóibín’s short stories, Mothers and Sons. And then… I’m not so sure. Does anyone have any novels to recommend or to remind me of? At this stage all and everything is welcome. Your suggestions will be most gratefully received.
Finally, I have to confess that another reason this week has been so hectic is that I’ve been compiling a book of my favourite blog posts from the past year and a half, which I’ve published with my husband under the imprint of TBR Books. (I’d like to thank Quillhill and Danielle particularly who encouraged me to do this.) We hope that by the time we return from holiday the books should be printed and will be retailing for about a fiver. It’s the end of anonymity for me, alas, but it has been a lot of fun to do. In fact we’ve enjoyed being publishers so much that we are now considering what project we might like to move onto. We’ve had one idea that I’m very excited about, but which I’m not quite ready to announce. But I’m keen to solicit blogger’s opinions: what would you like to see published? What kinds of books are missing from the current market? Have a think about it and let me know your feelings. And have a lovely few days!


Oh how exciting! I love the idea of a book of your favorite posts. And I look forward to seeing what you cook up next. As for books that are missing from the market, I think it would be fabulous to see more of what you’ve just done –I can’t always keep up with the many wonderful posts out there, and would love to have someone with a keen eye select a bunch of them, write some introductory information, and maybe put them into manageable and enticing categories.
As for mothers in literature, I think Edith Wharton is worth looking at. The Mother’s Recompense is not her best-known book, and maybe isn’t her best, but it has stayed with me nevertheless for its strange and intense mother-daughter relationship.
Comment by bloglily — December 14, 2007 @ 7:42 pm |
Well, what a thrilling set of announcements! Glad to hear you are about to have a much-needed holiday. Hope it is fun and restful and full of lovely books.
Thinking of mothers in literature, Mrs Darling and Wendy (the ersatz mother) in Peter Pan spring to mind. Also the mother in We Need to Talk About Kevin and Anna Wulf in The Golden Notebook. I’m sure I’ll think of more and return with suggestions.
Your publishing project sounds fascinating. I can’t wait to hear more.
Comment by charlotteotter — December 14, 2007 @ 8:33 pm |
How exciting, a book of Litlove posts to look forward to! I will put my thinking cap on about mother books.
Hope you have a wonderful holiday!
Comment by Stefanie — December 14, 2007 @ 8:37 pm |
Oh, how exciting. I’m so glad you’re doing this! I’ve been wanting to order some books from the UK lately, and yours is now on the top of my list! You’ve put forth lots of interesting questions–will have to ponder them while you’re on vacation. Have a wonderful time in Norfolk and I hope you get lots of reading done. Just in case you see this before you set off–there are new reading choices on the Slaves of G. blog if you’d like to read along again (hopefully we’ll get a few more votes as two books are tied at the moment).
Comment by Danielle — December 14, 2007 @ 10:38 pm |
Dear Bloglily, you are thinking exactly along the lines we have in mind – that’s excellent news, as it means we’re not so far off the mark. Watch this space! And the Wharton is a brilliant suggestion! Thank you! Charlotte – what a star you are! Those are wonderful books to suggest – just perfect. And thank you for your enthusiasm – it’s much appreciated! Stefanie – It was fun to play at publishers. I said to my husband, you can be Leonard to my Virginia and he laughed very, very nervously. Do think about mothers – I’ll bet you have some excellent books to recommend. Danielle – fantastic Slaves of G choices! I’ve voted, although it was very difficult to decide. Bless you for saying what you did about my book – I would have probably not gone ahead with it if it hadn’t have been for your comment and Quillhill’s.
Comment by litlove — December 14, 2007 @ 11:15 pm |
Oh, I’m so excited! I can’t wait to get my hands on a copy of your book! Congratulations.
Have a wonderful time on your trip. Do you have D.H. Lawrence’s Sons and Lovers on the list? Also, Barbara Noble’s novel Doreen has an interesting mother/daughter relationship in it.
Comment by Dorothy W. — December 14, 2007 @ 11:55 pm |
Oh, how exciting! A book. I want one!
I can’t wait. Have a nice break, litlove.
Comment by Seamus — December 15, 2007 @ 12:00 am |
I’ve probably just missed you but have a great time!
Comment by Bookboxed — December 15, 2007 @ 12:06 am |
Stowe’s Uncle Tom’s Cabin has a number of interesting views on motherhood–Chapter 9 in particular has an interesting juxtaposition of slave mother and white mother. Kate Chopin’s The Awakening, for a mother who is not so sure that being a mother is all she wants. Hawthorne–Hester Prynne is one of the most interesting female characters in 19th century American fiction, and she’s a mother, which is, of course, what gets her into trouble.
Comment by hobgoblin — December 15, 2007 @ 12:25 am |
Unless by Carol Shields and The Good Mother by Sue Miller are two that you might like to look at.
Comment by Brown Paper — December 15, 2007 @ 3:12 am |
I’ve made a few attempts at “The Savage Detectives” and for some reason it hasn’t hooked me, but I’m halfway into “Last Evenings on Earth” and I’m absolutely loving it.
Several memorable fictional portrayals of motherhood spring to mind but they’re mostly fairly recent ones and perhaps you’re thinking of canonical texts. In case they’re of interest to you though, here are a couple of my favourites:
Martha Baillie, “The Shape I Gave You” (about a mother grieving her daughter’s death);
Eliza Clarke, “Bite the Stars” (a mother trying to figure out how her son ended up a murderer on death row);
Lynn Coady, “Strange Heaven” (about a pregnant teenager who gives her baby up for adoption); and,
Margaret Laurence, “The Diviners” (an epic novel that tracks the life of a woman writer, a substantial portion of which focuses on her very complicated relationship with her daughter).
I’ll keep thinking about it and I’m sure I’ll come up with a few more.
Your foray into publishing is very exciting news! I love the idea of the best of your blog posts being given a more permanent form and I can’t wait to buy a copy.
Comment by Kate S. — December 15, 2007 @ 3:54 am |
A book of Litlove posts – wheeeeee – I cannot wait. And I love the imprint
Mothers appear in Poisonwood Bible, Cloudsteet and – umm – err – Cinderella [blish]
Also with the terrible news about Terry Pratchett, how about the Discworld character, Nanny Ogg, the quintessential mother.
Comment by archiearchive FCD — December 15, 2007 @ 9:22 am |
What a wonderful idea. Have a good break, you deserve and need it.
Comment by Ann Darnton — December 15, 2007 @ 10:14 am |
Fantastic news! I’m looking ahead to motherhood-related books too, but for entirely personal reasons. Enjoy your holiday before the holidays!
Comment by Smithereens — December 15, 2007 @ 11:32 am |
Hello Litlove, a very merry Christmas to you!
I’m not sure if any of these are really what you’re looking for, but still… Tove Jansson’s The Summer Book where the relationship between grandmother and grand-daughter is beautifully described but dominated by the dead daughter/mother. Then there’s Oranges are Not the Only Fruit, and Little Women, and if you’re including fairy tales there’s The New Mother by Lucy Lane Clifford (the text is up on the internet somewhere). I seem to remember Clare in Rebecca West’s novels starting with The Fountain Overflows was quite a powerful mother. And maybe The Man Who Loved Children by Christina Stead, and Camille’s mother in Therese Raquin? And would you count Miss Havisham/Estella in Great Expectations? And I haven’t read it, but East Lynne concerns a disgraced mother who secretly comes back to act as governess to her own children.
If you’re including absent mothers there’s even more. But I think I’ve bored on enough!
Have a lovely holiday and thank you for all your posts, which I enjoy so much.
Comment by a litlove fan — December 15, 2007 @ 1:19 pm |
Sorry but just one more… Raskolnikov’s mother in Crime and Punishment – if she’d told him to stop whinging about and get a grip, perhaps Russian literature would have been very different.
Comment by a litlove fan — December 15, 2007 @ 1:23 pm |
Good luck with the publishing project!
Some books about motherhood, off the top of my head:
The Good Mother by Sue Miller
Unless by Carol Shields
We Need to Talk About Kevin
The Rainforest by Alicia Steimberg
A Wild Ride up the Cupboards by Ann Bauer
Comment by kimbofo — December 15, 2007 @ 4:30 pm |
Glad to hear I’m not the only one having trouble keeping up with blogging these days (and to know I’m in such good company!). Can’t wait for your book. Meanwhile, Little Women and Good Wives would be good sources for mothers in literature, I think. First you have Marmee, and then you have the girls getting married and becoming mothers of their own.
Comment by Emily Barton — December 15, 2007 @ 4:42 pm |
What fantastic news – a book of litlove posts!! Congratulations. Regarding Mother books… I saw someone mentioned The Poisonwood Bible and that is a good one. I’d also include The Bean Trees by Barbara Kingsolver.
Have a wonderful holiday!
Comment by iliana — December 15, 2007 @ 5:36 pm |
This is great, litlove! I look forward to seeing your book of posts. I’ve often thought of making pdf files of your posts to take with me on plane rides, so that I can catch up with what I have missed. So, one reader is guaranteed
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I know a few books in which the mother-child relationship is quite significant:
Vikram Seth – A Suitable Boy
Arundhati Roy – The God of Small Things
Little Women (as has been pointed out already) and perhaps Jo’s Boys – Louisa May Alcott
If I think of more, I’ll come back to this post and leave a comment.
Comment by Polaris — December 15, 2007 @ 5:41 pm |
I’ve just finished Mother’s Milk by Edward St Aubyn and there are no less than three portraits of mothers, all different, all fascinating. Please read it.
Comment by charlotteotter — December 16, 2007 @ 7:10 am |
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I want a book!
As for mothers in literature, the mother in ‘Saplings’ by Noel Streatfeild; ‘Mrs Bridge’ by Evan S Connell; ‘They Were Sisters’ by Dorothy Whipple (two mothers who fail their children and one aunt who picks up the pieces); ‘Doreen’ by Barbara Noble (mother evacuates daughter from London during WWII but then becomes jealous of her daughter’s affection for the family she lives with, and also class conscious); ‘The Blank Wall’ by Elixabeth Sanxay Holding (an unusual noir novel in which the mother steps in to protect her daughter); ‘The Home Maker’ by Dorothy Canfield Fisher (in which the parents are forced to swap roles, to everyone’s benefit).
Ok, now I’ll stop because I seem to have directed you to half the Persephone list.
Comment by musingsfromthesofa — December 16, 2007 @ 5:16 pm |
You may consider this my official pre-order for your book. Don’t forget Lawrence’s Sons and Lovers. Happy Christmas.
Comment by Quillhill — December 18, 2007 @ 2:08 am |
A mother and two daughters – Gail Godwin, and my favourite: Terms of endearment – Larry McMurtry (perhaps a tad melodramatic?) but I think that for a man, he does a wonderful job writing female characters.
Comment by Lazy Cow — December 18, 2007 @ 11:08 am |
Fascinating project – there have been some good suggestions already, but how about Chris Guthrie in the Sunset Song trilogy?
Comment by Rainbow — December 18, 2007 @ 2:10 pm |
Madeleine L’Engle’s Circle of Quiet explores motherhood. We Need to Talk About Kevin by Lionel Shriver is a fascinating look at a not-very-good mother producing a far worse than not-very-good son. The Good Mother by Sue Miller made an impression on me. The Memory Keeper’s Daughter is about an adoptive mother, who has a child the birth mother never knew existed (twins were born, but one was taken). A book you may never have heard of, Windfalls, is interesting because the mother-child relationship is far more important than the spousal relationship. Helpless by Barbara Gowdy is disturbing, but it’s about a mother whose daughter is kidnapped. Ma Joad in The Grapes of Wrath subtly shows a mother holding a family together through hard times. Chocolat by Joanne Harris focuses at times on motherhood and the main character’s unusual (for the times) parenting choices, as well as on the main character’s relationship with her now-dead mother. I apologize if I mentioned anything others mentioned, but there are far too many comments to read through!
Looking through the reviews in my blog, it’s surprising how often mothers are missing (dead, estranged, prevented from seeing their children) from the lives of characters.
Comment by Dew — December 18, 2007 @ 9:38 pm |
Good heavens, there are a lot of good recommendations for “mother” books! Most titles I thought of are already mentioned, but I’ll add my 2 cents: A Tree Grows in Brooklyn by Betty Smith, Sons and Lovers by DH Lawrence, Medea by Eurpides, Song of Solomon by Toni Morrison.
Best of luck with your new endeavors, Litlove! Happy holidays!
Comment by LK — December 19, 2007 @ 9:05 pm |
My blogging friends, you are MAGNIFICENT! I knew you wouldn’t let me down! Thank you so much for your fantastic suggestions for reading. I’ve made them all into a list now, which I will be working my way through. And of course, posting the results here.
Thank you also for your kind words about my book, copies of which arrived this afternoon. After Christmas I’ll post more on it.
Thank you all once again for your wonderful support – it’s hugely appreciated.
Comment by litlove — December 21, 2007 @ 7:43 pm |
Books about mothers and daughters: Amy and Isabelle by Eliz. Strout, The Knitting Circle by Ann Hood
Comment by Mary B. — December 28, 2007 @ 8:37 pm |